Why I Became A Therapist
One of the greatest strengths that I have found working as a therapist is that it is crucial to be open with the people that I work with. As people working with people, it is important to “show your human”; a quality that is often advised against when learning to become a therapist. In the spirit of this transparency, I felt it was important to share my story of why I chose to became a therapist.
When I was a teenager, I remember being pushed into therapy by my parent. At this time, I was frequently angry and dealing with symptoms of depression that I had trouble understanding. When I was pushed into therapy, I found myself not enjoying it. Truthfully, it just made me angrier until I decided to terminate against the advice of my therapist at the time.
After this point, I had several therapists that I had trouble finding a good fit with. I went through several consultations, had multiple sessions both in person and online, and never found someone who I truly felt comfortable with. This led to a sense of hopelessness around therapy while I continued to struggle with my own mental health.
As I continued to struggle, the final attempt I had to try therapy was attending an inpatient facility as a patient. During this experience, I was able to find a group of clinicians who were determined to help me reach my goals and supported me along the way. Following this, I told myself two things: I would continue to be motivated to work on my mental health; and I would help people who may be struggling in the way that I had.
This was the push I needed to pursue my degree in psychology and shortly after, pursue my degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling. Since then, I have been successful in treating individuals who have experienced a variety of experiences including trauma, anxiety, depression, life stress, grief and more.
I share this story to normalize the stigma around mental health, particularly among professionals in the community. It is often believed that if someone is a mental health therapist, they have not experienced the other side of being in the client position and of walking in a client’s shoes. However, this is often not the case. I also share this story in the hopes that those reading will continue to seek support if they are struggling, as everyone deserves a person to walk along side them through their journey of healing.
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